We want to create a world where holistic, trauma-informed sexuality is the norm. This is a world where we have full access to our life force, health, energy and wisdom. A world where humanity feels deeply connected to body and spirit. A world where all humans can live from their deepest embodied power and purpose.
WE WANT TO CREATE A WORLD, WHERE HOLISTIC TRAUMA-INFORMED SEXUALITY IS NORMAL.
THIS IS A WORLD WHERE WE HAVE A FULL ACCESS TO OUR
LIFE FORCE , HEALTH, ENERGY AND WISDOM.
A WORLD WHERE HUMANITY FEELS DEEPLY CONNECTED TO THEIR BODY AND SPIRIT.
A WORLD WHERE ALL HUMANS CAN LIVE FREELY AND CONNECTED TO THEIR EMBODIED POWER AND PURPOSE.
THROUGH OUR EMBODIMENT EDUCATIONS,
WE INSPIRE PEOPLE TO EVOLVE PERSONALLY AND PROFESSIONALLY;
LIBERATE THEIR GIFTS AND SHOW UP IN THE WORLD AS TRAUMA-INFORMED,
EMBODIED LEADERS, FACILITATORS AND VISIONARIES.
WE DEFINE OURSELVES BY BRINGING A HIGH LEVEL OF INTEGRITY
INTO THE FIELD OF TANTRA AND SEXUALITY AND BY COMBINING
PERSONAL EMBODIMENT WITH THE ANCIENT WISDOM OF TANTRA AND
MODERN APPROACH OF NEUROSCIENCE AND SEXOLOGY.
Feels safe and is able to authentically express themselves, is familiar with shadow work, is de-armoured and has unlocked the orgasmic potential of their body
Knowledge around trauma and the autonomic nervous system, dived deep into their own timeline, is aware of own trauma responses and knows how to regulate their nervous system.
Is familiar with the consciousness of oneness, is able to track what happens on a physical, emotional, energetical, mental and spiritual level and act in a way that serves the highest good.
Is able to connect to and knows how to surrender to consciousness, is aware of own judgements and patterns and doesn’t let them interfere while serving in line with the highest good.
Knows and experiences their sexual fantasies, arousals and behaviors, is authentic in their sexual expression, has good understanding of boundaries, is embracing of the wide range of gender, body type, sexuality and relationship diversity.
Embodies a high level of integrity. Knows how to frame a session, upholds the TS code of ethics, part of the TS community, has supervision and is certified.
TANTRA AND SEXOLOGY
Has a basic understanding of tantra, neuroscience, de-armouring, myofascial release, breathwork and sexology.
A HOLISTIC PERSPECTIVE
The essence of all existence is consciousness and through that root, everything is connected. We approach life and human beings from this perspective. This means we acknowledge all aspects of life as an expression of the devine, the dark and the light. A tantric sexology practitioner is open to all parts of existence and our being.
CONSCIOUSNESS HAS NO JUDGEMENT
What this means is that there is no right or wrong, there are only consequenses. The discernment of right and wrong is purely a mental process. At Tantric Sexology we try not to judge in terms of right or wrong, rather we look at an individuals unique timeline and see what is in alignment in the moment. There is a buddhist saying ‘as many monks as many paths’, which fits perfectly in this philosophy.
LIFE IS A DANCE BETWEEN THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE
We believe that in order to embody your full potential it is important to explore the masculine and feminine polarity in your being. The first step from essence is masculine and feminine or ‘shiva’ or ‘shakti’ as it is called in some tantric traditions. During the education we will invite and challenge you to stretch yourself in both directions.
AS ABOVE SO BELOW
This principle embodies the truth that there is always a correspondence between the laws and phenomena of the various planes of being and life. What happens on one plane of existance has its impact on all planes. The micro and the macro are constantly connected with eachother. The body, for example, reflects what is alive on an emotional, mental and spiritual level. Another example is that what happens in ourselves is a reflection of what happens in the world.
SHARE FROM AN AUTHENTIC PLACE & EMBODIED EXPERIENCE
There are so many schools, teachings, theories and systems in the world. Because of internet they are more easily accesible then ever. We want to remind you that your experience is what matters most. We invite you to question us and everything you read. Explore what feels right to you and what is in alignment with your truth. Disagree, be sceptic and curious. Explore the teachings and methods yourself, so you can find out what works for you. It is important to be authentic in what you share and that you share only what you have lived yourself. This is how you become able to embody your essence and share it with the world.
SEXUAL ENERGY AS FUEL FOR MANIFESTING YOUR PURPOSE
In Tantra sexual energy is recognised as a gateway to different states of consciousness, eventually even a way to reach union with the devine. By building up our sexual energy (for instance by refraining from peak orgasms) and learning how to direct the energy it can become a very powerful tool for health, healing, deconditioning of limiting beliefs and patterns that do not serve anymore. In this way sexual energy is used for personal and spiritual growth and manifesting a life that is alinged with your essence. Recognising sexual energy in this way turns sexuality in a genuine spiritual practice.
WE ARE TRAUMA-INFORMED
It is our opinion that when working in the field of tantra and sexuality it is essential to have an understanding of trauma and the nervous system. Given the amount of people in the world that have experienced (sexual) trauma, as tantric sexologists, we need to be able to recognise signs of trauma response and know how to help our clients regulate, so that we can serve them best. If we don’t the sessions will be less effective or risk re-traumatising someone
OUR EDUCATION IS ROOTED IN TANTRA
Tantra is a rich spiritual philosophy which has roots going back thousands of years and branches that reach across many asian countries and cultures. Since reaching the west it has transformed even more with the upcoming of neo-tantra. Tantric Sexology is not an in depth tantra education, there wouldn’t be enough time to do it justice. However, the fundament of Tantric Sexology is rooted in tantric principles like: a holistic perspective, polarity, the principle of correspondence and recognising sexual energy as life force. As an education we aspire to give you a solid understanding and experience of these principles, so that you can apply these in your personal and professional life.
WE USE SCIENTIFIC INSIGHTS FOR STRUCTURE & SAFETY
Just as Tantric Sexology is not an in depth tantra education, it is also not an in depth education in sexology. We acknowledge the contribution science, in the form of psychology, neuroscience, epigenetics and sexology have made in navigating the landscape of the personality and opening to deeper layers of authenticity. We use the insights, models and techniques created in these fields as tools to give structure and safety so that the necessery deconditioning can take place for us and our clients to embody our authentic expression of self. There are different types of sexologists, ranging from clinical sexologists to sexological bodyworkers. On this spectrum we position ourselves in the area of sexological bodywork as we use talk, movement, breath and touch-based approaches to help our clients.